I lied, because i love you

Recently read an article in the Sun's newspaper during my daily routine breakfast.

About Honesty.

Ever since we were kids, parents used to tell us that we must be honest to everybody.

If you've "flung" your papers during exams, admit that you never study!
You stuffed your friend's shoes with superglue, hold your hands up!
You ran over a dog with your bicycle, make a damn police report for not having the license to ride on a bicycle!
Then come the daunting questions. Does honesty really work in a relationship?


When two person in love, sometimes it is awfully painful to learn that with honesty, things doesn't mean anything at times, really.


This is a question, a big mystery that has haunts the human mankind for thousands of years. I bet even Albert Einstein would need to scratch his balls in order to sort out the answer for this.




Example:

Wife: Dear, do i look nice in this dress?

Husband: Yeah, of course my dear, you looked ten years younger with this dress on you!

(In the heart: Yeah right, my grandma looks better with her clothes on.)



or



Wife: Do you love me? Only me?

Husband: Of course i do dear, no doubt about that.

(In the heart: Well, i do love you, but sometimes i do fancy looking at the hot chick staying next door. Just because i am married, it also means that i would be sinful to even consider that)

Well you see, when we tell lies, sometimes, it is because we just want you to be happy.

There's a old rule of thumb, some secrets are better being left untold.


But of course it doesn't warrant you from bedding another woman and put your other half in the dark.

What i meant is, only tell the "good lies".

In the end, there's no right or wrong decisions when you decided to "lie". But if it can helps in making sure that you and your partner have a healthy relationship, i can't see the reason why not to do it.

Even if sometimes you wife's make up scares away The Lady Gaga, still praise her on how beautiful she is.

When her cookings are so sucks that even a cat will bury the food in the sands , you still pretend to enjoy it.

Sometimes love is about trust, a trust that shall never fall aparts under any circumstances. Sometimes a guy's hormone can go "ga-ga" upon seeing a beautiful woman on the street, but it doesn't mean we are going to betray the one we are holding on in our arms at that very moment.

So, the next time when you see a beautiful girl, and your wife asked you:

Wife: Who is prettier?? Me or her??

You: Of course you are prettier from my point of view. But i can't deny that the girls walked past by just now, may seems to have a little more height and slightly younger too. Although you are not that old, but of course there will always be younger girls around. You can cook, she may not, but maybe, yes, i don't know her well, maybe she can be a good cook also, who knows right? Maybe if i knew her before you...(Goes on and on)

Ah well, the indian hormones kicks in again.

But for one, we are not shaking our head, when we say "I love you".

It is because we knew that we really do.